What is durfing? | The US Sun

May 2024 · 2 minute read

DURFING is a common practice carried out by Mormons who are forbidden to have sex before marriage. 

Here we explain what this raunchy concept is all about. 

What is durfing?

The act, most commonly used by Mormons, is also known as dry humping.

That means it is the act of simulating sex and is done while the female keeps her clothes on. 

Can Mormons have sex before marriage? 

The Church of Latter-day Saints has a strict code of chastity for its followers.

This means sex is off the table until marriage.

And that also includes masturbation. There are no exceptions to the rule. 

Even hugging and kissing for long periods of time are generally off limits. 

Mormons are urged by the church to not date until they turn 16 and are then encouraged not to get serious until they are older.

They are free to date non-Mormons as long as they share the same standards.

Mormons believe that sex is something that should be enjoyed by a married heterosexual couple, and not just as a means to have children.

What other sexual terms do they use?

In a similar vein, “soaking” is a sex act that involves a person putting their penis in another person's vagina and staying completely still. 

The logic behind it is there is no thrusting and thus does not count as full sexual intercourse. 

Then there is “jump-humping”.

 This tactic involves a third person jumping on the bed while two other people "soak" to create motion.

Therefore intercourse is possible without the man moving his member.

Michael Cawley says he can truly love all his partners in Three Wives, One Husband: Married To The Mormons

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